Local cemetery won’t install murdered son’s headstone

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Every Sunday, Charlotte Chattams pays a visit to her son’s grave site at Jefferson View Cemetery.

Since De’Angelo Dewberry’s August 2014 slaying, the mother had to first endure losing her 25-year-old son. She then had to withstand his killer’s trial — David P. Henderson is serving 15 years to life in prison. But what she encountered several weeks ago “tore me to pieces,” she said.

“My anxiety level is so high, my blood pressure is too high … to see this,” she said.

That Sunday, his grave marker was missing at the Union Road cemetery. She found it about 100 yards away, trash-covered and along the roadside.

Chattams has receipts showing she paid Remember Me Flowers for the headstone and foundation in full, but cemetery caretaker Ferman Merritt said the company never paid for the installation.

“Because they owe me for previous work, I refuse to put the foundation down. That is why the headstone is laying here,” he said.

At the cemetery, another family said they also used Remember Me Flowers to order headstones, and that those haven’t been installed either. “The headstone is the final closure,” said Tony Bettison of Jefferson Twp. “To him it’s a business, to us it’s personal.”

Remember Me Flowers representatives could not be reached for comment.

Chattams said she just wants the cemetery and Remember Me Flowers to get the money straightened out.

“It’s taking too long. All I want is my headstone complete for my son. Nothing else,” she said.

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